Men have been trying to figure out for centuries what women want! Women may be complicated creatures, but when it comes down to what they want, it’s pretty basic. For all those men who just don’t have a clue, here are the top five female turn-ons. Now you’ll know what that special woman in your life is looking for.
1) Sense of Humor
Women appreciate a man with an intelligent sense of humor. In fact, a few witty jokes can really make a woman take a second, longer look at a man! One thing you should remember (especially if you’ve just met a woman) is that crude or nasty jokes do not impress her! In fact, she’ll end up putting you in her mental category of “13-year-olds!” However, if you possess an intelligent sense of humor and you can make her laugh, you’re on the right track.
2) Honesty
Honesty is another big turn-on for women. While some men think they have to tell little white lies to keep women happy, it’s just not true for the majority of women. If a woman knows that her man is honest, she can trust him when it comes to the important topics.
However, if she knows that he only says things to placate her, she will go to someone else for the important things! Remember that women are big girls and they can handle honesty – in fact, what they can’t handle is a man who, for one reason or another, will not tell them the truth. By the way, honesty is always complemented by tactfulness!
3) Appearance
It’s not true that every woman is looking for her own Brad Pitt or a George Clooney. Every woman has her own personal preference when it comes to the looks department – some women love bald men, while others love long hair. Whether you’re muscular, thin, tall, short, bearded or not – there is a woman out there who will find you incredibly sexy. However, most women agree that a man who takes care of himself is a huge turn-on.
Don’t worry, men – this doesn’t mean you have to start moisturizing, but there are a few things women really love. For instance, choosing the right cologne can really make a difference! Women love for their men to smell great. You don’t have to get a personal stylist, but take your time choosing “date” clothes that look great on you. When you take just a few minutes extra to get ready for your woman, she will notice and she will love it.
4) Strength and Sensitivity?
That’s right – women appreciate a balance of strength and sensitivity in men. It’s in a woman’s nature to look for a man who is strong enough to protect her, but who can also show his emotions. She wants to know that she can rely on you to be there when the going gets tough and that you won’t have any problems discussing the way you’re feeling with her.
Don’t worry – women don’t usually expect their men to grab a box of tissues and start “boohooing,” but if something upsets you, talk to her about it. She will like the fact that you feel secure and safe enough to talk to her about the way you feel. Just remember that the woman in the relationship should be the more emotional, by far – there goes that strength thing again!
5) Respect
If you respect women, they will respect you. In fact, they will love you! Respect can be shown in many different ways. For instance, when she’s talking to you, listen to her and really pay attention to what she’s saying. If she wants a night out with the girls, respect her space and enjoy yourself with the guys. Remember and respect the fact that she’s an individual.
While respecting a woman does not mean that you have to fulfill her every wish, it does mean that you should consider her an equal, consider her feelings and respect her decisions. If you show this kind of respect for women, most of them will show you equal respect – and you can be sure that they will notice what a great guy you are!
Each woman has her own ideas about what she wants in a man – the same way that men have their preferences and personal likes and dislikes. However, the top five female turn-ons above are common interests that most women will agree on.
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